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August 10th, 2006 at 02:52 am

I am sitting here at 10:44 PM wishing the boards were more active. I am missing the thread about no spending. I really enjoyed that thread. It was rather motivational to me and I enjoyed checking in on everyone's progress. I guess I felt like part of a group reaching toward a common goal. With more than $23,000 in debt, I do not feel very much like part of a group. I feel like the only person striving toward THAT goal.

I put together a grocery list tonight and I should be well under my budgeted amount for the next two weeks. I will shop on Friday. I went through my freezer and I have enough meals in there for 16 dinners, so I will not need to buy any dinner foods. I only need to buy fresh produce and dairy and lunch foods. Oatmeal and yogurt is all we need for breakfast. I need to think about school lunches for the second of the two weeks. I haven't had to do that for a while.

I have purchased all the necessary school supplies, though my youngest son's daycare is likely to come up with a few.

I am thinking about doing a no-spend two week challenge for myself starting on Friday. I think I could get DH to play along. I can't think of any birthdays or anything that would mess it up. My best friends are teachers as well so they won't be wanting to do anything these next few weeks. It's time to veg for the rest of our break and then that first week back is always really draining. We never want to do anything after work that first week back.

I'm going to go search out some interesting blogs now. Big Grin

8 Responses to “Bored”

  1. gruntina Says:
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    Hang in there! I started with over 65,000 in debts and all of it was insecured debts. I am at it alone as well. It's amazing how time will go by when you see it go down each month. You will get there and you are not alone.

  2. daybyday Says:
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    I'm in the debt group too, and I've got a long way to go. Frown
    I just finished looking at the grocery store ads and making a shopping list for tomorrow. I hope I can really reduce my grocery costs this month. So far so good.

  3. freeme journey Says:
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    Take a look at my starting debt - then you definitely won't feel alone. If you think about it, the debt didn't happen overnight so it is (unfortunately) not going to go away overnight.
    One day at a time - "success in no more than a few simple disciplines practised every day" - HANG IN THERE - you will do it.
    Bronwyn

  4. Bookie Says:
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    I hear you, Kris. That no-spend challenge was a fun thread, and I miss it as well.

    You're not alone in facing big debt. Some of us are further along than others, but most people can identify with your experience in digging out. I'm half-way through the final 12 months of my five-year plan, so I'm living proof that it can be done. I'll also admit that it's not all fun & games.

    That's especially true after the initial excitement has worn off, the first gains have been made, and you look around with that what now feeling. That's why I favor a balanced approach rather than a crash diet. I have to have rewards and satisfactions along the way as incentives to keep on keeping on.

    Slow and steady gets me to the goal. It's a marathon, not a sprint. Don't let yourself burn out. We don't get in deep overnight, and most of us will take some time to get out. And life needs to go on as we do.

    Cheers. Smile

  5. Kris10leigh Says:
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    It's good to know I am in good company. I actually should feel very fortunate because though we are very much in the hole, it has not affected our marriage, my children are well clothed and fed and we live in a respectable house. We have enough income to where we can afford to pay well over the minimum due, so we really are quite lucky. We WILL dig ourselves out. It is just going to take time. I'm not giving up any luxuries like cable or internet. But I am doing what I can with the groceries. I just hate spending money on consumables! Of course I hate spending money on things that collect dust too. So just exactly how did we get in this mess? Wink

  6. ima saver Says:
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    You will do it Kris!! and anytime, you want, you can start a no spend thread again. It was popular!

  7. ima saver Says:
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    I bet your dog is adorable. I have a little black, poodle, Holly who weighs about 5-6 pounds!!

  8. Kris10leigh Says:
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    He is adorable and he has a great personality. I couldn't have asked for a better dog with the kids. They love him a little too hard sometimes, and he just takes it and gives back kisses. My husband and I got him two days after returning from our honeymoon. We took a cruise and one of our stops was Cozumel, Mexico. So we named him "Cozumel". We call him "Cozzie".

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